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artgnome - 2007-01-08 16:51:34 - http://artgnome.diaryland.com
divorce was very traumatic for me. I'm a lot more careful now about who I get involved with. I hope to never have to go through it again. I hope the same for you too.

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Bob - 2007-01-08 18:29:13 - http://shadowgm.diaryland.com
Dave, you went the extra mile and then some to try and make things work. You are not allowed to spin this, 'some of it is my fault' nonsense, because it simply isn't true. 'I'll try to be nicer if you try harder to <blank>,' is a fallacy, because it presumes you were doing something wrong, or not good enough, and makes the other person's behavior contingent upon YOU carrying the burden. (As opposed to 'I'll be nicer' and leave the benefits to manifest on their own.) Sorry if that's a big truckload of pop psych parked in your driveway, but it is definitely not your fault.

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Brin - 2007-01-08 20:41:19 -
I don't remember who said it, but there's a saying that goes 'If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you'll have is a distressed damsel.' You did your best. This part of your life's journey is over and you'll do better if there's a next time. :-)

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